Imago therapy because it yourself, with your partner and the forces that have brought about a completely new way of looking at the groundbreaking. It teaches you how to listen, and to finally be heard.
Imago theory states that We subconsciously partners who both negative and positive traits of our parents are attracted to embody. We are unconsciously recreate our childhood. Early in a relationship, we are attracted to partners who mirror our parents are. Soon, symptoms similar to those in a need for us to change our partner or make new demands on them to start producing.
As a woman, so, if you had an absent or negligent father, you are out partners who are away to read that you may not be able to predict or will seek, and will always leave you feeling insecure . The problem is that when you fall in love with this type of person, and a lifetime to them, their relationship is a constant battle that you feel needy and starved for attention turns to and your partner push you away.
Also, your partner overbearing parents who enmeshed relationship with their children may be shared with. In this case, your partner is attracted to you because you are enmeshed, overbearing, and constantly want attention. However, they are pushing you off that they behave as they grew up with, much like you inside, trying to heal neglected children are rejected.
I had a female customer, who as a child came from a privileged home once said to me: "I feel like a bottomless pit I need to love your partner as a child I did not offer all of are .. " It is a lot of pressure to place on your partner. He is a family which includes more then one time he needs to love her, she would push him away, came from. It is a constant battle, they never felt they were just reacting to their childhood wounds.
When a couple counseling sessions, or debate, they are arguing about only 10% of the current issue. They are fighting about 90% of which is based on their emotional triggers childhood wounds. Needy and also include your partner in your life, you push him or her away. What are you subconsciously dismiss your upbringing is.
Imago approach in important part to realize that we can heal our childhood, but we heal through our partners. We never restore our parents because we can no longer children.
For example, the woman who felt like he needed love to your partner that he make up for loss as a child, often upset when his partner during an argument would leave to become. She felt abandoned, and subconsciously, these feelings often took him back when his father got out after drinking, or his mother would be working late. That same fear and loneliness he felt as a child experienced, and as a result, extremely angry and needy when his partner will be returned.
90% lying below the surface: consultation to discuss the issue, we were able to uncover his real fear. To heal her wounds, she said that if his partner explained that even if he was crazy, the 20 minutes, or even an hour would return, he will know that he was coming back, And he does not experience the fear of abandonment. He wanted that time frame, because he knew that he was not going to need it.
Healing through the process, the less needy and more can be trusted, and his partner nearly dismissed from his past without triggering the emotional to him, could grow.
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